{"id":328,"date":"2018-10-23T12:33:45","date_gmt":"2018-10-23T12:33:45","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.doulike.com\/blog\/?p=328"},"modified":"2020-06-09T13:59:55","modified_gmt":"2020-06-09T13:59:55","slug":"6-things-that-only-a-true-gentleman-will-do","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.doulike.com\/blog\/relationship\/6-things-that-only-a-true-gentleman-will-do\/","title":{"rendered":"6 Things That Only a True Gentleman Will Do"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_69_1 counter-hierarchy ez-toc-counter ez-toc-custom ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<div class=\"ez-toc-title-container\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title \" >Table of Contents<\/p>\n<span class=\"ez-toc-title-toggle\"><a href=\"#\" class=\"ez-toc-pull-right ez-toc-btn ez-toc-btn-xs ez-toc-btn-default ez-toc-toggle\" aria-label=\"Toggle Table of Content\"><span class=\"ez-toc-js-icon-con\"><span class=\"\"><span class=\"eztoc-hide\" style=\"display:none;\">Toggle<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-icon-toggle-span\"><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"list-377408\" width=\"20px\" height=\"20px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" fill=\"none\"><path d=\"M6 6H4v2h2V6zm14 0H8v2h12V6zM4 11h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2zM4 16h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2z\" fill=\"currentColor\"><\/path><\/svg><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" class=\"arrow-unsorted-368013\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"10px\" height=\"10px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" version=\"1.2\" baseProfile=\"tiny\"><path d=\"M18.2 9.3l-6.2-6.3-6.2 6.3c-.2.2-.3.4-.3.7s.1.5.3.7c.2.2.4.3.7.3h11c.3 0 .5-.1.7-.3.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7zM5.8 14.7l6.2 6.3 6.2-6.3c.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7c-.2-.2-.4-.3-.7-.3h-11c-.3 0-.5.1-.7.3-.2.2-.3.5-.3.7s.1.5.3.7z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/a><\/span><\/div>\n<nav><ul class='ez-toc-list ez-toc-list-level-1 eztoc-toggle-hide-by-default' ><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-1\" href=\"https:\/\/www.doulike.com\/blog\/relationship\/6-things-that-only-a-true-gentleman-will-do\/#He_Gives_You_Meaningful_Compliments\" title=\"He Gives You Meaningful Compliments\">He Gives You Meaningful Compliments<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-2\" href=\"https:\/\/www.doulike.com\/blog\/relationship\/6-things-that-only-a-true-gentleman-will-do\/#He_is_Punctual_and_Keeps_His_Promises\" title=\"He is Punctual and Keeps His Promises\">He is Punctual and Keeps His Promises<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-3\" href=\"https:\/\/www.doulike.com\/blog\/relationship\/6-things-that-only-a-true-gentleman-will-do\/#He_Is_Attentive_to_the_Needs_of_Everyone\" title=\"He Is Attentive to the Needs of Everyone\">He Is Attentive to the Needs of Everyone<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-4\" href=\"https:\/\/www.doulike.com\/blog\/relationship\/6-things-that-only-a-true-gentleman-will-do\/#He_Has_Impeccable_Personal_Hygiene\" title=\"He Has Impeccable Personal Hygiene\">He Has Impeccable Personal Hygiene<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-5\" href=\"https:\/\/www.doulike.com\/blog\/relationship\/6-things-that-only-a-true-gentleman-will-do\/#He_Knows_If_You_Want_to_Be_Treated_Like_a_Lady\" title=\"He Knows If You Want to Be Treated Like a Lady\">He Knows If You Want to Be Treated Like a Lady<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-6\" href=\"https:\/\/www.doulike.com\/blog\/relationship\/6-things-that-only-a-true-gentleman-will-do\/#He_Will_Listen_and_Keep_Your_Secrets\" title=\"He Will Listen and Keep Your Secrets\">He Will Listen and Keep Your Secrets<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n<p>Looking for a happily ever after in the wrong places is going to contribute to disappointment time and time again. Eventually, you may develop a fear of love that will keep you from moving forward in your personal life. Instead of giving up on dating altogether, you should probably focus on finding the right guy. A true gentleman will make you feel appreciated and will change the dating patterns you\u2019ve been through in the past.<\/p>\n<p>I had a massive fear of falling in love again after a few failed relationships. This is when I began examining the similarities between my romantic partners. Most of them lacked consideration for my feelings. Most of them underestimated the importance of the little things. They weren\u2019t gentlemen in my book.<\/p>\n<p>Recognizing a real gentleman necessitates a bit of observation. Here are the essentials to be on the lookout for.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"He_Gives_You_Meaningful_Compliments\"><\/span>He Gives You Meaningful Compliments<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>At a certain time in my life, I felt that if I got another compliment about my experience, I would go crazy.<\/p>\n<p>Real gentlemen dig a bit deeper and they are not going to be superficial in their compliments.<\/p>\n<p>You may receive praise for the work that you do, the positive outlook you have on life or the strong relationships that you maintain with your friends and family. Someone who pays attention to your values and goals is certainly a keeper!<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"He_is_Punctual_and_Keeps_His_Promises\"><\/span>He is Punctual and Keeps His Promises<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>A pet peeve of mine is a guy who makes a promise because he feels you expect it. Very soon after, however, the promise is forgotten and you\u2019re left hoping about its execution.<\/p>\n<p>Gentlemen are punctual. They don\u2019t keep you waiting and they don\u2019t forget promises. If he cannot accomplish something, he\u2019s not going to make a promise. Thus, you can rest assured that you have a reliable person by your side.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"He_Is_Attentive_to_the_Needs_of_Everyone\"><\/span>He Is Attentive to the Needs of Everyone<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>When dating, we\u2019re always trying to make a great first impression. Thus, a man you\u2019re meeting for the first time will probably act in a specific way in order to get you liking him.<\/p>\n<p>To get a somewhat accurate idea about his personality, you should observe the manner in which he behaves with other people around him.<\/p>\n<p>How does he approach the waiter at the restaurant? What does he tell his mom when she calls him on the phone? This is when the stage persona will disappear and the true personality will shine. A real gentleman is polite and cordial with everyone, not just the people he is attempting to impress.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"He_Has_Impeccable_Personal_Hygiene\"><\/span>He Has Impeccable Personal Hygiene<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Poor hygiene is a major turnoff. A person who doesn\u2019t care what he looks or smells like on a first date is obviously way too inconsiderate and lazy to build something solid with.<\/p>\n<p>While paying attention to one\u2019s appearance is a bit superficial, it can reveal some information about character.<\/p>\n<p>Gentlemen will shave and use cologne when going on a date. Their nails will be trimmed perfectly and there will be no sweat stains under their arms. Personal hygiene shows attention to detail, discipline and healthy habits that a grown man should definitely have.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"He_Knows_If_You_Want_to_Be_Treated_Like_a_Lady\"><\/span>He Knows If You Want to Be Treated Like a Lady<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Some women want to have doors opened for them. Some want to receive flowers on a date while others are indifferent.<\/p>\n<p>Real gentlemen pay attention to what the women in their life like.<\/p>\n<p>He will take a mental note of your behavior on that first date. He will know whether you\u2019d like to split the bill or if you expect him to pay. He will accept your wishes and stray from the routine if that\u2019s what makes you comfortable.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"He_Will_Listen_and_Keep_Your_Secrets\"><\/span>He Will Listen and Keep Your Secrets<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Being present at a meeting is not the same as being an active listener. A man who is an active listener will pay attention to your story, ask follow-up questions, inquire about your feelings and your thoughts.<\/p>\n<p>A real gentleman will make you feel comfortable sharing information. You\u2019ll know that your secrets are safe with him. If you can confide in a guy, you will find it relatively easy to build a stable relationship with him.<\/p>\n<p>Getting over an ex that did you wrong can be a long and challenging process. You should start dating with <a href=\"https:\/\/www.doulike.com\/local-dating.html\">local singles<\/a> when you feel ready for this step. When you do, start looking for a gentleman.<\/p>\n<p>Observe the things he says, the things he does and the ones that he omits. Every single detail of his appearance and his behavior can reveal important information. As you gain a bit of experience, you will find it a bit easier to pinpoint the important elements you should be paying attention to and drawing conclusions upon.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Looking for a happily ever after in the wrong places is going to contribute to disappointment time and time again. Eventually, you may develop a fear of love that will keep you from moving forward in your personal life. Instead of giving up on dating altogether, you should probably focus on finding the right guy. A true gentleman will make you feel appreciated and will change the dating patterns you\u2019ve been through in the past. I had a massive fear of falling in love again after a few failed relationships. This is when I began examining the similarities between my romantic partners. Most of them lacked consideration for my feelings. Most of them underestimated the importance of the little things. They weren\u2019t gentlemen in my book. Recognizing a real gentleman necessitates a bit of observation. Here are the essentials to be on the lookout for. He Gives You Meaningful Compliments At a certain time in my life, I felt that if I got another compliment about my experience, I would go crazy. Real gentlemen dig a bit deeper and they are not going to be superficial in their compliments. 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