Last updated on April 17th, 2019 at 09:21 pm
Dating nowadays is nothing just a common factor that every girl or boy desires to have a date with a person whom he/she likes. But at the meeting point something odd happens as because of age difference. Dating with a man who is so much older than you is somewhat odd looking. Though, there are so many examples where we can find a pretty young lady date with a man, who is almost double to her age. Sometimes it look odd but deeper we think we will find out that, this choice has a meaningful reason as we all think about our future security and something else.
Why Young women like older men
As we think about our love relationship, future security is the most fundamental part. Older men provide much more security as they are conscious about themselves. They can provide a woman a better future life. As psychology says that a woman becomes mature than a man before 3/4 years. So as a part of adjustment, 54% women choose their partner 4-5 years older than her. This happens because this age difference is adjustable. Another group of 14% women prefer men who are more than 7-8 years older. These women think that those men are well matured. They look like the father and they can understand the necessity and feelings of them. So adjustment is not a problem there, especially when you are dating an older man whom you found through dating site.
Besides, these men are mostly financially stable. Financially stability is the most important part for the better future. In the case of shopping, food, lodging, travelling, they will provide the best as he is settled. Women also conscious about their career and in what time they become supportive the man can provide the essential things. In the young age they may be ready to take the life as just GO WITH THE FLOW, CAN PACKED UP EVERYTHING AND CAN GO ANYWHERE IN THE WORLD AND CAN ENJOY. But in the time of settlement they have nothing to do.
Another important thing is dating an older man means that most of his friends are settled and as old as him. They are focusing on their career and better future as like as him. As a woman, you can think that he may be separate you from your friend zone. But deeper you think better you understand the reality.
Compare the life of a man with the real life, they are like wine. THE OLDER HE BECOMES, THE WISER HE WILL BE. He may love a girl earlier, may be divorced. But he saw the reality and had a great lesson from that. He may have some bad habits like drinking, smoking but he knows his limitations.
In the case of how your partner treat you, older man is best for you. He had some lessons earlier which help him to treat you more CORDIALLY & IMPARTIALLY. They know how to treat a woman to make her feel good and how to make her happy. He will teach you how to handle with a situation, how to handle with money, how to focus on life from the various perspectives. After all, he is too much supportive.
Why it can’t be good for you
You may love a man who is older, ready to have a deep dive into the world of love, but the main problem comes when you have to introduce him with your family. In most cases, they will not permit you, will not appreciate you, will not tell you to think about further plans as well. The difference between talking with a man who is 4/5 years older than you and with a man who is 7/8 years older than you is totally different. He may have explored many of your fantasies, so feel those with him for the first time may be your supposition but not for him.
However, relationship depends on how you treat with your partner, how attached you both are, how liable you are, and also on a number of unique factors among you. If you are attached with him, just forget about his age, think about adjustments. It may take time to fix up but see, the result will always be absolute, rigid, assured.
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